Thobeka Majozi, who shares a son with renowned rapper Cassper Nyovest, has commanded attention on social media after revealing harrowing details about infidelity and her son’s cancer battle.
In a heartfelt social media post, Majozi, who is also marking her birthday, shared startling details about her experience of spending two years in an oncology hospital as Khotso, her son, had life-threatening operations and chemotherapy.
She further revealed that she dealt with an infidelity curve ball, claiming that the other woman was aware of her and her son's illness and had no qualms about showing off their relationship.
Recently, Cassper tied the knot with his childhood friend Pulane Mojaki, and before his marriage, he claimed that he broke up with the mother of his child, citing sex addiction as the major cause of their split.
In a lengthy post that has since sparked controversy on social media, she said: “This birthday hits differently. The last few years have been something, and looking back now, I’m filled with gratitude.
“Who would’ve thought I’d be here? Not in pieces but in peace. The tears that were once in silence are now from laughing out loud. I’m actually in awe of the goodness of God. How am I so deserving of this unconditional love? His covering and grace? Even when I was unfaithful to Him. He remained faithful to me.
“I’ve always heard God is found in certain locations. I didn’t know I’d find Him at my lowest and most broken. At months old, my son was diagnosed with cancer. An entire different world. I always stood for protection and privacy. Trying to maintain the world" and my world was a marathon on its own.
“I lived in an oncology hospital for 2 years with my son as he underwent chemotherapy and life-threatening surgeries. In the depths of fighting cancer. I was hit with a curve ball of infidelity. The woman knew me, my son’s condition, and made no mistake with flaunting their relationship. After finding out, he ended it with her and tried to make amends with me.
“I couldn’t trust someone who can hurt me at my lowest or allow another woman to disrespect his woman. Considering everything we had been through, it was more of the timing than the infidelity. He later married her. In between home discharges and a new project I started. I had to stop my life, put aside my own emotions, and show up for my baby. At the time, his health was more important than my heart. One thing we will do is enjoy the world. Faith & family was the remedy to everything. Both families understood the mandate: living and loving is what we stand on.
“Landed in the centre of God’s hands. He had me exactly where He needed me. I gave my life to Jesus. I entered the era of isolation. He placed me in His secret place. He worked my character, renewed my mind, and restored my heart. The work hasn’t stopped. I die to myself daily.
“He continues to mould me into the perfect potter he is. I’m fully in my Jesus girl era, walking in love and forgiveness. Most days are better than others. Yet peace remains. I’m yet to see what God has for me. More reason to celebrate life; today my son is cancer-free, and it’s all glory to God.”
The Star
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