Covid-19 fans the flames of love in Nigeria's online dating scene

Oreoluwa Akinnawo looks at his mobile as he participates in an online dating session using the Vybe app in Lagos. Picture: Nneka Chile/Reuters

Oreoluwa Akinnawo looks at his mobile as he participates in an online dating session using the Vybe app in Lagos. Picture: Nneka Chile/Reuters

Published Jul 18, 2020

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Lagos - Oreoluwa Akinnawo is in his

element. Lagos's bars and restaurants are shut and Nigerians are

struggling to socialise. The pandemic is his perfect time to

find a soul mate online.

"The dating thing during this restriction works perfectly

for me because I'm really an indoors person," said Akinnawo, a

25-year-old digital marketer.

Sparked by coronavirus, Akinnawo and others like him are

part of a boom in internet dating tailored for Nigerian

professionals. In Lagos, pre-outbreak courtship often revolved

around social functions, as well as couples meeting through

church or their mosque's social networks.

Vybe, an app which went live in April 2019, has seen user

numbers grow by almost a third to roughly 8 000 as movement

restrictions push people to seek intimacy online, the company

said.

"Coronavirus has been weirdly good for us," said co-founder

Adetolani Eko. "People are becoming more aware of the need to

connect through other means," he said.

Adetolani Eko, the co-founder of Nigerian online dating company the Vybe, speaks during an interview with Reuters in Lagos. Picture: Nneka Chile/Reuters

Vybe and LagosMatchMaker, the moniker of dating coach Didi

Edet, have moved activities online to keep offering premium

services that other apps do not.

"People cannot meet for first dates, unless they meet at

people's homes and locations which people did not feel was

really safe," said Edet, whose "Dating in Quarantine" programme

has more than 500 people.

At Vybe, game nights and speed dating sessions are all

online now.

That was how Akinnawo met a woman he describes as cool,

witty and smart. They speak four or five nights a week, chatting

about swimming, singing and getting rid of traditional gender

roles.

"You are no longer really focused on what the person looks

like, but you're focusing on the answers to the questions that

you are hearing from the person," Akinnawo said. "It feels more

personal than before." 

Reuters

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